Here are the two letters we got here at The Morning Rush.  If you have any comments, please leave them below.  Thanks!  

(Some of the content has been left out or edited to make it harder to identify the people involved AND to make them PG)




I have to share a problem with you that I don’t mind you mentioning, but just leave my name out of it.

This weekend I went on a date with a girl that I met at work.  She’s pretty awesome, and I thought this would be perfect.  

I took her out to (restaurant removed) to grab some good food, and we were both impressed.  Both her an I had a few drinks, and the night was going really well.  

Afterwards things moved pretty quickly.  We moved the date back to my house where things got pretty heated.  I’ll spare you all the details, but the jist of it is that we got down to business.  During the “act” she, and I’m NOT making this up, started making noises like Chewbacca.  NO S&%# DUDE!  This girl was making noises like chewbacca. Needless to say, this freaked me out.  I had to stop because it was totally crazy.  

Here’s where I need help.  What do I do now?  I work with this girl and I don’t want things to get weird.  I know, I should have thought about that before I did this, but honestly I thought it would work out.  

How am I supposed to handle this?  

By the way…you have my permission to post this online if you want.  I can use all the help I can get. 




Hey Sid,

I really have a big problem and I need to know what to do.

I have a really good guy friend at work.  We do a lot of stuff for work together, and we’ve gotten to be best friends.  I feel like I need to say that I have no feelings for him at all.  I’m married, he’s married and we’re not interested in each other at all.  Honestly, his wife is a good friend of mine.    

Now that’s out of the way, we were working late one day and things weren’t getting done.  I asked him what was going on and he told me that he heard from a friend of his through facebook that a girl he used to date needed to see him.  After he got in touch with her (and I’m making a long story short) he found out that she had his baby.  The baby is 3 now and she just felt like he should know about it.  She doesn’t want anything from him, but felt like he needed to know after her father passed away.  Apparently she wasn’t close with her dad and didn’t want that for her child.

My friend told me not to tell anyone and it’s killing me.  I haven’t even told my husband, and it’s killing me.  I can’t stand it because if this happened to me I would want to know. I know his wife and she’s really nice.  She should know what’s happening, right? But if I tell my husband he may tell them.  I'm totally lost here and I have no clue what I should do.  

If you decide to talk about this, could you change some of the facts in my letter to make it less obvious please?  Thanks, and tell Demetrius I loved his show this weekend.